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Ways to achieve an orgasm.
 
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How to enliven your sexual life
Has your sexual life ever been in decline? Hasn't it changed ever since? Have you ever desired to get a complete satisfaction? Unfortunately only a small percent of all people lead a full scale sexual life and enjoy all aspects of it. A great number of obstacles are always in the way, both psychological and physiological. To satisfy yourself is not a big job but to bring satisfaction to your partner requires definite skills and practice. Moreover, sometimes sexual feelings are lessening and your sex life becomes dull and your desire to have sex may disappear for long. Anyway, how do you prevent this?
The answer is as simple as that: you need to enliven your sexual life by applying some imagination: try sex games, buy adult sex toys and be open to experiments.
There are thousands of adult toys for him as well as for her: lubricants, vibrators, penis pumps, massagers and many other.
Your partner deserves a better attitude and a better satisfaction! Simultaneous orgasm is what people are striving for and what can be reached. |
Posted: 10:53, 2008-Apr-15 |
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Faking an Orgasm
Sometimes, we may be tempted to fake an orgasm. Is it a bad thing? Yes and no. read on for a debate about the advantages and the disadvantages of faking orgasms while you are having sex with your partner.
The Advantages of faking an Orgasm:
Is there advantages of this? Sure there is! from a woman' point of view, she may want to stop having sex, she may not be enjoying it at all or simply want to do something else, like continuing with foreplay or maybe even cuddling. Sometimes she may want to sweep the floor or do her taxes, women have all sorts of reasons of stopping sex. It is debated if this is a good approach by faking an orgasm to end it. Some men are very sensitive to their ego and by faking an orgasm will help to protect it and keep it intact by saving man's ego, is not necessarily a bad thing. Men may be crushed by the women telling him that they are bored. men like to be macho and strong and always want to please their lover so sometimes stopping sex to protect his egoism not such a bad thing. mind you it';s not perfectly okay either because you are lying him, but it's the lesser of two evils.
The disadvantages of faking an orgasm:
The disadvantages affect the person who is supposed to be experiencing orgasms and sexual bliss, whereas the previous advantage affects the person who is supposed to be giving the orgasm. Sometimes it is bets to tell the truth the main reason for this is that if you keep faking it, he will think that his technique works, that you lie it and it makes you come to a sexual climax. Then , every time that you have sex, he will do the same technique and before you know it, the thinks he's satisfied you and you are left feeling ad about lying to him in the first place. So what do you do?
Conclusion: the bets thing to do is to have a fine mix between the two. Or mayby you could be honest every time. I guess it's all about the personality of you and your partner and also how compatible and open and honest you are in your relationship. If you two have honest communication skills then it will be easy to tell him that you are unsatisfied with his sexual performance. If you fear hurting his ego, maybe your relationship is more platonic, there must not be any sensual passion or intimate closeness. If you are stuck in this situation, i suggest trying to attain it in order to have a sexually fulfilling love life. This sexual compatibility blog has more information about smoothing the bumps along the road to sexual satisfaction. |
Posted: 10:55, 2008-Mar-6 |
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Masturbation Does NOT Grow Hair on Your Palms!
Unfortunately, in our past, it was wrong to touch yourself. Their was the tough that masturbation grows hair an your palms, you feet, it can make you go blind here is a great article from a psychology website called psychcentral.com that dispells some more information combatting these fallacies about masturbation: It's strange that people would even think that, but i guess when there is no eduction, peope do weird things, like sacrifice others when there is a lunar eclipse thinking that it is a sign from the Gods...
Masturbation is even suggested by sexual therapists, not people like me but actual professionals who have went to university to study sexual eduction and human sexuality for years and years. they even suggest touching your clitoris, oh my! See, I'm not kidding, check it out here, this women has difficulty achieving an orgasm, as thousands of women do, but this doctor has replied and you should see the answer about problems acheiving orgasm it's really neat that we have comae along way from the past taboos!
hooray for the step ahead in actually admitting that people are sexual beings! |
Posted: 10:53, 2008-Feb-29 in Orgasm Research |
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About My First Orgasm
I mentioned in my previous entry that i did not have an orgasm until i was in my twenties but I did not get around to mentioning why. I did not know about it, obviously from my education at a Catholic school. Also, my mother never really talked to me about sex and even if she did, i would not expect her to tell me about an orgasm. I would not tell my kids this! I don't remember where i first read about orgasms, but it was probably on a magazine somewhere.
It was an elusive thing, just like the g-spot. Young women always ask "how do i know if i has an orgasm?" Well, first, if you have to ask, then you have not had one. it's pretty obvious. It is defined by the sensation of your legs clenching up and you will feel your pelvic muscles flex. It is completely involuntary and you have no control over it. Now if you aware of this, then you might voluntarily flex the vaginal muscles, sort of lie faking your own orgasm. I did not even know about this and my first orgasm aIways like "what the hell was that?" I felt like i was high, after I was so relaxed and smiled. This is what should happen to you if you experience an orgasm.
I guarantee that your teenage boyfriend or even young twenty-something boyfriends had no idea how to give you an orgasm and I would advise against seeking out a thirty-something man to give you one, that's not the way to go about it. there is one big secret left, if you are over 21 you must invest in a g-spot vibrator. this is practically proven to give you an orgasm. It gave me an orgasm. The g-spot is inside and difficult to react and frankly, men have no idea how to stimulate it anyway, so save yourself th heartache of a boy friend and get yourself a g-spot vibrator! It is so easy, just insert it and face the curve forwards about an inch up inside your vagina, wiggle it from side to side and up and down until you feel the "right spot" i can't really describe it, may it feels like you have to pee, that it what some omen report. Personally, not me really. then leave it on that spot. touch your clitoris, press it and in about one minute you'll have an orgasm! |
Posted: 10:36, 2008-Feb-29 in Orgasm Tips |
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Welcome to Orgasm Guide
Hello and thanks for stopping by new new adult blog. It is not a blog with racy content, it is more educational to help women enjoy sex and get the most out of their sex lives. I am not an expert in relationships or even sex, but i like to talk about it. With my spare time, I am here to blab about sex topics, anything about sexuality but mainly to help women achieve an orgasm.
I did not have my first orgasm until I was in my twenties because back when I was in my late teens, i did not have an internet to surf to learn about these things. The only sex talks I had were in my health class in high school. Sex ed is nit what it should be, it confused me more then anything. I went to a catholic school and there they basically taught abstinence. Which i think is ridiculous, teens will explore because it's all new to them. i don't expect to be taught how to orgasm but at least let us know how to put on a condom. But on the other hand if they taught that sort of thing, the parents would create a big upraor... That's a whole different topic entirely!
I believe that an orgasm is so good for you, in fact, i did a bunch of research showing the great effects that an orgasms has on the body. If you see this wikipedia entry about orgasms, it is an entire physical process that releases hormones into the blood stream and helps to cure the body and flush out toxins and all sorts of neat things. I could paraphrase the really neat article that i read, but instead of taking my time do plaigarise, (hehe) i will show you the link. This is about the physical aspect and what actually happens to the body during and after an orgasm
An interesting thing that the article states in this, and I quote"Morris also proposed that orgasm might facilitate conception by exhausting the female and keeping her horizontal, thus preventing the sperm from leaking out." That totally makes sense as to why the muscles clench, i've always wondered that. Also it mentions that the muscles clench during orgasm to hold the penis and make it squirt out more, that I don't really know because I don't think that squeezing a penis makes any more ejaculate come out. maybe it helps to push the sperm up higher, increasing the chances of pregnancy. Wow, Isin't nature the most interesting thing! |
Posted: 10:16, 2008-Feb-29 in Orgasm Research |
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