Orgasm Guide

2008-Mar-6 - Faking an Orgasm

Sometimes, we may be tempted to fake an orgasm. Is it a bad thing? Yes and no. read on for a debate about the advantages and the disadvantages of faking orgasms while you are having sex with your partner.

The Advantages of faking an Orgasm:
Is there advantages of this? Sure there is! from a woman' point of view, she may want to stop having sex, she may not be enjoying it at all or simply want to do something else, like continuing with foreplay or maybe even cuddling. Sometimes she may want to sweep the floor or do her taxes, women have all sorts of reasons of stopping sex.

It is debated if this is a good approach by faking an orgasm to end it. Some men are very sensitive to their ego and by faking an orgasm will help to protect it and keep it intact by saving man's ego, is not necessarily a bad thing. Men may be crushed by the women telling him that they are bored. men like to be macho and strong and always want to please their lover so sometimes stopping sex to protect his egoism not such a bad thing. mind you it';s not perfectly okay either because you are lying him, but it's the lesser of two evils.

The disadvantages of faking an orgasm:
The disadvantages affect the person who is supposed to be experiencing orgasms and sexual bliss, whereas the previous advantage affects the person who is supposed to be giving the orgasm. Sometimes it is bets to tell the truth the main reason for this is that if you keep faking it, he will think that his technique works, that you lie it and it makes you come to a sexual climax. Then , every time that you have sex, he will do the same technique and before you know it, the thinks he's satisfied you and you are left feeling ad about lying to him in the first place. So what do you do?

Conclusion: the bets thing to do is to have a fine mix between the two. Or mayby you could be honest every time. I guess it's all about the personality of you and your partner and also how compatible and open and honest you are in your relationship. If you two have honest communication skills then it will be easy to tell him that you are unsatisfied with his sexual performance. If you fear hurting his ego, maybe your relationship is more platonic, there must not be any sensual passion or intimate closeness. If you are stuck in this situation, i suggest trying to attain it in order to have a sexually fulfilling love life. This sexual compatibility blog has more information about smoothing the bumps along the road to sexual satisfaction.

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